Tuesday, January 11, 2011

12 Days of Christmas Catch-Up: Our Anniversary Date



The plan was to have a little anniversary dinner at The Garden (sufficiently fancy, sufficiently affordable) and enjoy the lights on temple square.  The problem was that parking downtown was nearly impossible (it was the week before Christmas, folks). We should have been there around 4pm, but we couldn't leave Provo until after Wes's treatment and it was nearly 8pm when we strolled into the JSMB. 

It was a merry bustle inside the building.  In fact, we ran into the Haywards and the Reneers, two of our favorite Provo families who had just been to see the Joseph Smith film (December 23).

Were we there to see the film too, they asked?
I shook my head and said something about our anniversary and our dinner plans upstairs.
"At The Roof?"  President Reneer inquired.
"At The Garden,"  I corrected.

After hugs and pleasantries, we parted company.
"Salt of the earth," I said to Wes as we walked away.  He nodded and we climbed into our elevator.


"It'll be an hour,"  the hostess at The Garden told us.
"Thanks anyway," we said before heading back to the elevators. 
"That's ok," I told Wes, "They have that new Nauvoo Cafe downstairs." 
We waved one more time to Tia Hayward and Julie Reneer (who had come up to see the view) and we headed downstairs.

The twinkling cafe seemed pleasant enough.  I sent Wes to save a table and waited in line to order a couple of sandwiches.  As our cheese melted under the broiler, Wes approached me with his phone.  I raised my eyebrows at him.  It wasn't exactly a convenient time for a telephone conversation. 

"It's Tia Hayward," He said with a shrug of his shoulders. 

I took the phone and visited for just a second before the impatient customer behind me indicated that it was my turn to order sides.  "Hold on, Tia,"  I said.  "Um, horseradish, lettuce and tomato," I told the server.
"They're ordering their food!"  Tia whispered to someone on her end of the phone line.  Then she called to me, "Can you send your food back? Julie and I just got you a table at the Roof!"
The people behind me drummed their fingers.  The server looked at me expectantly.  Tia waited for my response.  After just a second of surprised immobility I laughed.  "Um, we've changed our plans,"  I stammered to the server.  "We're not going to eat here." 

I dashed out of line to avoid the embarrassment, tried to thank Tia and Julie over the phone for their sneaky, wonderful generosity, and quickly grabbed Wes out of his chair.  "Where are we going?"  He asked.
"To the Roof,"  I smiled.


Dinner was divine.  And the whole experience pretty much set the precedent for the remainder of our perfect evening together. 


We walked and talked through temple square.  Wes laughed at my mostly failed attempts at correct camera exposure. 


But we couldn't stay forever.  Had to find a water bottle so Wes could take his medicine. We made it to our car and started driving.  "Isn't that the little bed and breakfast we stayed at on our wedding night?"  I asked as we drove by The Inn on Capitol Hill
"Yeah, I think it is,"  Wes said. 
"Let's see if they'll give us a glass of water,"  I said, turning in.
"Lori!  No way!"  Wes said to me, mortified.
I parked. 
He protested. 

It actually took me a while to convince him we had a reservation and I that I wasn't just going in to beg for water.

    
So in the end, he was surprised. (I didn't think he would be. I'm horrible at surprises.)  And I was surprised by how familiar the old mansion felt.  Like we'd just been there yesterday. 


Wes didn't carry me up the stairs this time, but everything looked just how I had remembered: 



     


Cozy and romantic.

The next morning was Christmas Eve.
Before we left, Wes had a big seizure. 
I didn't freak out and call the paramedics. 
But I did pray and pray and pray and weep and weep and weep while I waited for him to pull through.
He did pull through. 

We had to reschedule breakfast.


But we had to do that eight years ago, too. 
So it seemed fitting.

  

When we got home (to Bountiful) our little ones were making pizzas for lunch with G and G and Aunt Julie. 


And we were grateful to be home with them.  Grateful to be together.  Lucy asked me to tell her everything, so I told her in detail about the beautiful restaurant with the fancy food and the Salt Lake temple right out the window, and about snuggling with Daddy by a warm fireplace in a cozy room with the Salt Lake temple still right out the window. 

She thought it all sounded perfect.
It all was.

15 comments:

Lessa said...

I am so glad you were able to have a fun night alone together. I miss you, friend.

GreenPhoenix said...

I'll agree with Lucy, that is a perfect anniversary (despite the seizure). That's amazing that your friends were able to get you a table at the roof.
Happy anniversary, by the way!

Heather said...

What a romantice and wonderful evening. Congrats to you two. I love you guys and pray for many more years to come.

mcampbell said...

1) You two are so pretty. A seriously handsome couple.

2) Mark and I were downtown on Temple Square that night, too. We stayed at the Little America to have our own little first Christmas and braved the Christmas crowds to see the lights. Makes me happy we were both cozied up with our loves on the same night--our teenage selves would've appreciated that. :)

heath said...

Very romantic. I love it (and the both of you)!

nateandrebecca said...

I am so glad you guys had such a great anniversary. It does sound wonderful (except maybe the seizure), and it all looks so perfect and beautiful too!

courtney said...

such a beautiful, beautiful post.

Marie W said...

You two are perfectly wonderful.

jeanine said...

What a wonderful surprise you pulled off! Sounds perfect (in spite of the seizure). Love you so much!

MJ/Mom/GrammaJ said...

Your photos are exquisite. I am very picky about temple pictures to hang in my home and I want to print and frame these! You have a real talent. For many things: photos, writing, mothering, loving, hoping and faithing! Well, there should be a word like that! Eric and Jenny stayed at the same place for their wedding night-it is lovely. What a perfect night. Congrats on your anniversary.

Deanna said...

Congrats pulling off that surprise. Sounds like you really had him :) You are such a strong woman Lori!

Bloom said...

Oh my goodness, I started crying when I got to the Tia phonecall, started crying harder when I got to the surprise about staying at the same place as your wedding night and was bawling heartily by the end. I'm so glad it was such a good anniversary. Love you.

anne

jeanine said...

ps. I'm with Anne... you had me bawling.

pps. I read this aloud to Rich and he said, "Lori's a great writer. She should write a book." I agree.

Nola said...

I am glad you had a great anniversary! I love the Reneer's too, although I don't know them as well as you do! I have a solid connection to them in my heart b/c thier son and my brothers had the same genetic disorder. Miss you guys!

Wendy said...

Love your posts as usual! Happy - belated - Anniversary!