
A beautiful fall day here in our neck of the woods.
A lot going on.
A lot coming up.
Wes and I were reading scriptures last night and ran into a verse we remembered fondly from our days of courtship, from back in a seemingly different life when we were a little younger, when I was a little leaner, when we were a lot more naive, and when we thought we were in love =)
(We were in love - but it was different love. The anticipating, early light of dawn compared the delicious warmth and bright contentment of mid morning. Both beautiful. Just different.)
Here's the well remembered scripture:
Alma's words to the people of Gideon anticipated the birth of the Savior in Bethlehem and his mortal life and ministry. But it's not hard to make the application to our own days, is it?
When Wes and I read these words together for the first time, there were, indeed, "many things to come." Some aspects of the approaching future felt excitingly vague to us, some things were vague and worrisome: a wedding, a home, children?, school? work? insurance(what is insurance again?)? There was so much we couldn't quite see in our pending personal headlines. And what of the world? Would our marriage be marked by wars, disasters, depressions among peoples and nations? Certainly, we knew, it would. But, we clung to our knowledge of the one thing that trumped all of the personal and global uncertainty: the coming of the Son of God to rule and reign. To restore. To calm. To direct. The certainty of that most important event gave us courage and hope to step into the future together. We would prepare rather than fear. We would not worry. We would hope.
The five years between that early morning reading of Alma 7 on the steps of our single student apartment complex and last night's reading of Alma 7 in the living room a few doors down from where our little daughter was asleep, have been marked by proverbial, but very real, laughter and tears. The future we couldn't see five years ago has begun to play out. But so much of it still looms ahead. Our reading last night was not too different from our reading five years ago. "Many things to come." Unguessable things along side the hoped for, planned for things.
And there remains "one thing which is of more importance than they all."
One thing that gives remarkable daily direction, if remembered!! Sometimes it takes a conference talk reminder. Sometimes the reminder comes from the resident two year old...
A few days ago I was working at the computer. Lucy was behind me, climbing around on our living room ottoman. Suddenly: that utterly distinguishable thud of head against wall. Long wail. Tears.
I scooped the little wounded whelp into my arms and asked the traditional: "Where do you hurt, love? What happened?"
Her answer: "I had a fall. And I cried. And you picked me up."
Touched by her simple, familiar sounding summary, I said something to her about Heavenly Father and Jesus, about their willingness to help us when we are hurting or sad. The comment was brief, not so much for her as for me. I dried her tears and asked her if she was going to live. "Yeah" she replied without a quiver. Much better. I was about to plunk her back onto the floor when she posed a solemn, sweet-voiced question that caught me off guard: "Can you talk about Jesus again?" she asked.
Yes, Lucy, I can talk about Jesus again. Oh, please keep reminding me! Please don't let me forget that that's my job, that that's my joy. Please help me remember that you're ready to learn; that you need to learn; that there are things to learn besides ABC's and am-i-nal sounds. Things more important than Halloween costumes. More important than clean floors and clean laundry.
Indeed, there is something "of more importance than they all!"
Yes, Lucy. I can talk about Jesus.
30 comments:
Oh Lori this was exactly what I needed this morning. What a beautiful post. Don't you love that our little ones so often remind us what is really important? It always amazes me. As much as I love when william learned the ABC song, I love it even more when I ask him to sing a song for a crying James and --without fail-- he begins singing "I am a child of God". Thank you for reminding me of such an important lesson this morning. I love you!
You've done it again. You never ceased to amaze me with the way you find life's lessons in everyday activities. The way that you write about it and make it so real to all of us. Thank you Lori! I too needed this this morning as I seem to have fallen out of the "routine" that I thought I had established. Thanks!!
Good post to discover as I try and make the transition into studying Biology. Love you
Beautiful again, Lori. Thanks for the reminder. :)
How easy it is to give other things an undue proportion of our time and concern. Not that the other things are unimportant, but thanks for reminding me what truly is important and what brings the greatest peace concerning all the other things, whatever happens.
Oops, that last comment was from me. Definitely didn't notice that I was signed in on my friend Angela's account still.
Thanks Lori for always inspiring and helping us remember "whats really important" little Lucy is a lucky girl to have such a sweet "mommy"! You and Wes are a great couple! I love your thoughts!
You're beautiful. You're daughter is beautiful.
The gospel's beautiful too.
Thanks for pointing us all that direction.
I'll add my thanks to the others; thanks for the reminder. I always remember how Jay told us he would try to find teaching moments in his interactions with his children. This made me think of that...love you and your family!
Love your post. Little ones really have clear perspectives, don't they? Good luck to Wes tomorrow on the test. You're in our prayers.
ditto ditto ditto. to everyone. 2007 was my year to move forward, I think 2008 will be the year to anxiously wait- to find out what "good gifts" our Heavenly Father has in store for us. good luck to wes tomorrow! our prayers are with you as always. love
Lori, you are amazing and I feel so blessed to work with you and see your good example every day.
tears in my eyes...beautiful Lori and in-tune Lucy.
And I'm in tears.
Granted, I'm pregnant, but blogs don't usually make me cry.
"I had a fall. And I cried. And you picked me up." We all know Lucy is a smarty, but that is beyond profound! I love that she asked to hear more about Jesus. Don't you suppose the spirit just made her feel so warm inside when you talked about Him--so warm that she wanted to hear/feel more? Blaine is loving reading about baby Jesus and Nephi and his big boat in his Book of Mormon, and it makes me think about what little sponges they are and that it's never too early to start teaching them these most important things.
And p.s., since my email and your email aren't working, let me say again here and now how grateful I was today that you would serve me so I could serve Grandma. You are a true and dear friend.
Can you talk about Jesus again? Suzy's favorite quote is from one of her BYU professors? maybe? but it is: "It is through you that your children will see the Saviour first." Already Lucy sees him and I can't wait until we all can again. May it be soon.
Love you! Thanks for sharing your gifts of the Spirit.
I really don't have time to do much blog surffing anymore, but I can't NOT check the family ones....I needed your sweet words tonight! I'm learning much from you,Lucy and Wes....Thanks!!
I found your blog from a comment you left for Emily Anne. I hope you don't mind. My question for you is how have you handled the "attitude" from your 2 year old? I have 16 month old full of sugar, spice and ATTITUDE. She is also STRONG both physically and mind/spirit. What's a mom to do?!:)
And, thank you for your wonderful messages!
What a beautiful mother you are! How I do hope your future brings happiness and all the things you hope for...
And a mother tearfully bowed her head and thanked the Lord that the children knew the 'lessons of life', taught the lessons of life, and walked in truth....
My soul was touched! dwp
Lori- what a great post. Thanks for sharing all your inspiring thoughts.
Thanks everyone for your thoughtful and thought-provoking comments!! Sure love you all SO MUCH!
and amy: what IS a mom to do?!!?! I'd love to discuss the 'attitude' issue with you! - I'll pop over to your blog as soon as I can find a minute this week...we'll "chat" :)
ps... I just saw Lucy's Halloween on Anne's blog... super cute! (and William's favorite show is also Super Why...)
Hi Wess, I don't know if you remember your old cousin, but i check your blog all the time to see how you guys are doing, so I hope you don't care if I add you to my list. I am so glad to hear that you are doing so great!
Wes & Lori, this is so insanely random, but I came across your blog somehow. I can't even remember the connection...the blogging world is crazy! Anyway, I just real quickly wanted to say hi. I keep in touch with Ashley Earl and she told me last fall about all that you guys had been going through. I am absolutely thrilled to see that you are doing so well now! Your family is so beautiful and you look so truly happy. I wish you all the best! Take care!
Rachel (Koch) Bjorkman
Lori, go ahead and post about this little issue of children full of attitude. Certainly we aren't the only ones in the trenches on this one!
If you haven't noticed there has been a long time since Lori's last post. She is generally a very consistant, two-ish posts a week, blogger.
I am happy to report that she is alive and well. She is currently tending 6 of her nieces and nephews while their parents are away. If they weren't such terrific kids i'd be worried but they great. I was able to spend the weekend with them and it was a blast. I don't think Lucy has had so much fun her whole life(i'll let Lori blog those details later).
So hang tight, our pursuits continue, and Lori will be back to post sometime next week.
P.S. Mandi and Rachel it was good to hear from you! Go ahead with adding us to your list Mandy. It has been too long, I feel like I have totally lost contact with your family. It's good to have these little blog interatctions. Tell them all hello from me. And Rachel, I hope you and you're family are doing well. So fun to hear from you.
Wes, thanks for the update, I was worried about you guys. Heath told me that she was babysitting the nieces and nephews. She is brave a woman. Hope all is well with you since you seem to be holding down the fort. Does she come back this week?
Lori,
You write beautifully! You definitely see the gospel in all avenues of your life, no wonder Lucy can too. Thanks for the inspiring thoughts!!
Rachel
Wes, thanks for the update as to the lack of posting lately! We were getting worried...We do need our fix of the Truman Family on a regular basis!! Wow Lori is a great Aunt, and I bet Lucy is loving it! Love you guys!
Okay....we'll I just went back a blog to two and found out where Lori has been....TENDING!!!! What a great aunt. I have missed her inspirational words this past week or so!!! However Wes,you're doing a pretty good job of filling in! Love you guys!
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