Sunday, March 30, 2008

Reptile-Inspired Ramblings?

For those of you who a) care, or b) desire a lighter read, our Easter pictures are posted here.

For anyone brave enough to follow a run away train of thought:

On Friday, Heather and Royce called with an invitation to visit the Bean Life Science Museum. Always a favorite destination of Lucy's, we accepted. The child was ecstatic. "We're going to see the animals!!" (But then with a raised eyebrow, "Are they real?").

No pictures to testify that we had a great time, but we had a great time. We sat through a live reptile show. Briefly touching a few scales and shells may have been the highlight of Lucy's almost three-year-old life. Little girls might be made of sugar and spice, but it so happens that my little girl also loves snakes. Royce and Heather were kind enough to procure a tiny toy snake for Lucy after the show and it hasn't left her immediate presence since. "I need rubber snake to sleep with me." "I need to take rubber snake to church." (And it's always rubber snake. Thanks for the accuracy, Lucy). I say: whatever. Just no real ones.

Certainly, Lucy didn't get her reptile loving genes from me, but I found the museum show interesting and highly entertaining, too. Unlike Lucy and her rapture for snakes, I was most impressed with the turtles. We saw the smooth shell of a small hawksbill turtle and learned that he can swim up to 18 (? is that right, guys?) mph. Wow! We also saw a live land tortoise whose lumpy shell affords him protection on land vs. swimming speed.

Interesting? Sure. But why bore you with turtle tidbits in a blog entry? 'Cause I've been thinking about those two turtles all weekend! Fascinating: the same species, but built for totally different habitats, totally different lives. Little water turtle can sure swim up a storm, but on land, he's quickly outdistanced by the heavier shelled, faster walking tortoise (who, himself, would sink if he took a dip).

The point of this turtle nonsense? A familiar principle. We all have strengths. We all have weaknesses. We all have distinct roles and missions.

How nice to be in relationships and communities where varied strengths and differing roles are appreciated and admired rather than coveted. How burdensome is the pressure of comparison and competition!

Love these classic Brigham Young words:
"I am weary of the manner in which our women seek to outdo each other in all the foolish fashions of the world."

(Ouch! But it is wearying, isn't it? On a similar note, I remember so heartily nodding my assent to this post, written by a friend and truly insightful writer.)

In light of our tendency toward comparison and competition, how comforting is Paul's body of Christ counsel!? How nice to be reminded that we needn't outdo anyone! How nice to remember that instead of competing, we can, every one of us, contribute to a complete and beautiful whole! What a needed invitation to consider our own strengths. Am I a swimmer or a fast-land-walker? How am I perfectly suited to my own sphere? What different, but complimentary addition can I bring to the Lord's table? I don't have to be "the eye."
Forgive the long thought train!
(Heather and Royce may not wish to invite us to the Bean Museum ever again!)
Baby Sea Turtles by Leia Bell

16 comments:

jeanine said...

Lori I love how you can take a trip to the Bean Museum and remind us all of an important life lesson! Thank you!

Stefani M. said...

Whatever inspire us to keep right perspective! It's great to find life lessons in everyday situations.

heath said...

Glad Lucy likes her rubber snake--sorry she wants to bring it to church and stuff. Oh well. Thanks for the reminder that we're all different and that's a great thing. It's one of my biggest soap-boxes! Glad I've had such good friends with whom I've never felt I had to compete.

Heather said...

Thanks for the reminder and i love the post you linked to. This is something that I have to be reminded of each and every day. I am one who wishes I could be like that, but am slowly coming to terms that I have my own "talents" to bring to the table and that I need not compare them to others nor do I need to want what others may have. Thanks!!!

Kate said...

I love this. This may sound silly, but it's easy, in this blog world, to get down on yourself for the obvious talents others have that you may not. This was so nicely put! I always try to keep perspective on the things in my life that I think are important and doing this seems to eliminate any blenvy I might have! I've gotten so much better at just enjoying everyone's different strengths because, honestly, how boring would this world be if we were all the same?!

Lindsay said...

Thank you for this, Lori. It's a good reminder that I know that I, for one, need to be repeated often.

Vicky said...

I appreciate this pick-me-up post today. It's a reminder that I often need. And I think that it's great that it was inspired by turtles!

Unknown said...

love you friend! this post brought to mind 3 things:

1. I have never been inside the Bean Museum and I'm afraid I should send my diploma back for this flaw. Jealous you got to go with some of my favorite people.
2. I love that Lucy loves her snake! Next time you guys are here-she will have to play with our "water-living" turtle.
3. I have been down on myself all year for not completing the tasks that so and so does so well. Thank you for the swift kick to my competative brain :)

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melissa @ 1lbr said...

Agree wholeheartedly with what you said and what others commented already. I want to see lessons like this popping out of turtles!

Emily Anne said...

The Bean Museum has long been a favorite place of mine, but I've yet to come away with this kind of insight -- you're one of a kind, Lori! Wish you and Lucy could join me and Henry for an outing to the pet store, I wonder what pearls of wisdom you'd unearth there?
I'm so glad you posted this today. I needed something wholesome and positive to take up some of the "poor me" space in my mind (saying goodbye to family is so hard!)

ROAST said...

We'd be happy to "double" again sometime. It was fun to spend time with you guys and glad you got such a great message from such a simple show! :-)

I'm also glad Lucy is enjoying her pet rubber snake!

amy said...

good reminder lori. thanks, you are truly wonderful. never been to the bean museum but--i'll have to go soon.

Laurie said...

Love your analogy Lori.....I would be lying if I didn't say that I envy your writing ability, but oh how I enjoy it!!!! What a beautiful talent!! :) I love reading your posts....they are, touching, motivating, inspiring and just plain great!! Love you guys!

Laurie said...

Love your analogy Lori.....I would be lying if I didn't say that I envy your writing ability, but oh how I enjoy it!!!! What a beautiful talent!! :) I love reading your posts....they are, touching, motivating, inspiring and just plain great!! Love you guys!

Laurie said...

Opps....sorry that posted twice :(